Healing Trauma and Grief Through Internal Family Systems Therapy
- christina gerteis
- Jun 4
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 15
Understanding Trauma and Grief
Trauma and grief can deeply impact one's emotional well-being and overall health. These experiences often leave individuals feeling overwhelmed and stuck in their healing process. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings and seek support. Fortunately, there is a therapeutic approach gaining recognition for its effectiveness in addressing these issues: Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy.
What is Internal Family Systems Therapy?
IFS therapy is a unique and groundbreaking method. It views the mind as a system of various parts, each with its own characteristics and functions. These parts can carry different emotions, memories, beliefs, and behaviors. Sometimes, these parts may conflict with one another.
The goal of IFS therapy is to help individuals understand and navigate these internal dynamics. By doing so, they can achieve healing and harmony by unburdening parts affected by trauma and grief. One of the key principles of IFS therapy is the concept of the "Self." This is the core and essence of one's being, inherently calm, compassionate, confident, creative, and curious. Through Self we connect in courage, with clarity, and can release suffering.
The Role of the Therapist
In IFS therapy, the therapist plays a crucial role in guiding and supporting our healing process. They assist individuals in accessing their Self and establishing a relationship with their internal parts. This process occurs from a centered place. By connecting through Self, individuals can reduce reactions and symptoms connected to childhood and adult trauma experiences. This includes big and little "T" traumas accumulated throughout the lifetime. They learn to recognize and address the needs of their various parts in a safe and supportive environment.
The Healing Journey
Through this process, clients can develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their experiences. This journey leads to profound healing and transformation. IFS therapy can help individuals cultivate self-compassion, enhance self-awareness, and build resilience in the face of adversity. There is also strong evidence to show the link between IFS and neuroscience in reducing and shifting the impact of trauma.
Benefits of IFS Therapy
Self-Compassion: IFS therapy encourages individuals to be kinder to themselves. It helps them understand their emotions and experiences without judgment.
Enhanced Self-Awareness: By exploring their internal parts, clients gain insights into their behaviors and reactions. This awareness is crucial for personal growth.
Building Resilience: Life can be challenging, but IFS therapy assists with individuals opening towards more confidence when facing adversity. They learn to navigate difficulties with greater ease and clarity.
Neurobiological Mechanisms
Memory Reconsolidation and Integration: IFS facilitates memory reconsolidation by accessing and compassionately reprocessing traumatic memories held by parts, fostering adaptive neural rewiring and emotional healing (Ecker et al., 2012).
Cortical-Limbic Regulation: Activation of compassionate Self-energy engages prefrontal cortex regulation over limbic activation, reducing emotional dysregulation, hyperarousal, and trauma symptoms (van der Kolk, 2015).
Enhanced Neural Integration: Neurobiological research suggests IFS promotes enhanced functional connectivity between prefrontal and subcortical regions, supporting sustained integration of traumatic experiences and emotional regulation (Lanius, Vermetten, & Pain, 2020).
When to Consider IFS Therapy
If you are seeking therapy for trauma, grief, addictive parts, or health issues, considering IFS therapy may be beneficial for your healing journey. It is a powerful protocol that can lead to lasting change.
Meet Christina Gerteis
Christina Gerteis is Level 1 trained in IFS therapy with IFIO Level 2 training in process offering consultation for IFS practitioners and Program Assistant support for Level 1 trainings. With expertise and care, she provides an open, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their inner world. Together, you can work towards healing and growth.
Additional Resources
To learn more about IFS services and resources, feel free to explore https://ifs-institute.com/resources/videos or soundlifecounseling.com or call/email 970-829-0982 soundlifecounseling@therapysecure.com directly for more information. Sound Life Counseling is here to support you on your path to healing and well-being.
Conclusion
Healing from trauma and grief is a journey. It requires patience, understanding, and support. IFS therapy offers a powerful framework for individuals to navigate their internal landscape. By embracing this approach, you can find the healing and inner harmony you seek. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Christina is here to help you every step of the way.


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